Before you write, yes, I stay in hotels.
Not AirBnbs where 1 in 10 have been found to have hidden cameras installed by owners spying to find sex workers (Google "AirBnb spying"). I prefer my appointments to not be watched by a third party as the discreet option.
I'm not in "private" homes either. "Private homes" are where nosy neighbors discuss on websites designed for that purpose the car and foot traffic going to suspicious locations every day, even sharing screenshots of men and their cars arriving and leaving. Sex work is one of only two common reasons why there would be elevated traffic to a home, so yes, people absolutely watch for it (and the longer a provider lives and works there the more obvious it gets). Again, I prefer the more discreet type of location where I'm there briefly, not long enough to build up this kind of scrutiny.
And yes, I screen.
I verify complete strangers before meeting alone in a private room at a physical disadvantage as a woman with a lack of protections I'd have in any other profession. If you appreciate the far greater risk that providers take than clients and understand that even though you have almost no risk I've assured you have zero risk by getting myself verified by RS-AVS, then you shouldn't have a problem also assuring my safety by verifying with me.
I verify one thing.
I don't require a laundry list of info like a lot of providers.
However, that one thing is ***EXTREMELY NON-NEGOTIABLE***
Are you familiar with the phrase "trust but verify"? I'm in the adult business. I only verify.
Finally no, I'm not going to "out" you.
To what end? To have a furious woman screaming and threatening me? To get you fired (and thus unable to book appointments)? In many years the number of furious wives I've encountered I can count on one hand - and the reason they happened at all? The CLIENT was slack in locking down his phone, computer, email, etc. They got ME in trouble, not the other way around. Over 80% of clients are in a (if they're to be believed not completely satisfying) long-term relationship. That's why most of you book. You seriously think I'm going to break you crazy kids up? 100% of clients have an income - that's how you're able to book. I didn't drive multiple hours, pay thousands for rental car, gas, tolls, and hotel just so I could chop recklessly through everyone's info like a brain dead idiot with a machete. Give me, a verified, well known *veteran* provider with a sterling reputation for discretion earned over many years, some credit. READ ALL the words on the form on the following page. Don't "skim" it, only see check boxes then form assumptions I've already addressed. It's maddening to get a "tutorial" from someone "explaining" all the things I already explained to them (but they didn't bother to read).
If you have real screening info I can both see and verify by contacting before we schedule, you can reach me here